Same with me I'm new and I'm and im a girl and I don't know either

I'm new too. But to change gender, go to the control panel, click the middle button, and
choose the bubble and click it, then scroll to the bottom, and click change data. Presto!
Personal message me if you still need help!

I'm pretty new, but i kinda figured it out, let me clear something up for you
I'm pokegirl225's best friend, and i know everything that goes on between her and guru,
and she deleted her account :(. So, like she said go to the same part to choose gender,
and go to the thing at the very bottom, it says "change avatar" click browse, it will take
you to your pictures, the pic needs to be 80x80 if you don't have any pics at that size go
here: http://www131.lunapic.com/editor/ you can do wwwaaay more than just resizing! Good
luck!
Have a nice day!