valdane is held in the naga temple in the forbidding lands

Valdane is at the naga temple as said, you will not find Ellowyn there...infact, I havn't
gone far enough into the game to find her...Also when you're in the naga temple in the
Forbidden lands (Bellow Skuldoon) you may want to explore more, there is a relic of power
there. (To get to the Forbidden Lands you must agree to help Varguth (or whatever the
Skuldoon leader's name is))

i need help how to get out

The balls you need are easy to get if you use wind. Two blasts into each of the areas of
the eyes and then come back for them. The hurricanes kill the eyes. Grab them and put them
into the fire. Imjimh