1st : Get a statue at the head start
2nd : Let the statue stay and upgrade ur Timber Camp first
3rd : Then Upgrade ur clay pit then followed by the iron mine to level 10
4th : Get Going on until u have barrack,wall,market,smithy and a workshop (If you are lacking in resources,leave ur tribalwars and do whatever u need to do:( Example ur homework or go to work =D
5th : Get ur Barracks to level 5 and get all the troops to at least 50 units after u just got ur barrack.
6th : Upgrade ur wall to level 15 and see the change in ur village on the map~ =)
7th : Feel Free to upgrade watever u like...
After you done the following,look into ur weapon chamber,u should see the first equip ( if the item has completely reach 100% Good Luck =)