I have seen Kyle Moore around town! I think he either died or there is just soem glitch
with the game the game is pretty glitchy! I really don't know how I can help you! You may
just have to find a new boyfriend. Who knows you may walk staight into him later in the
game and be lik 'Hey were'd you go?' and everything would be alright again but truly I
dunno sorry...

I've seen him around. I usually go for that Gunther dude though. Anyways I don't know
about the icons but I do know about ppl not showing up anymore. I've learned that if you
start a game with a single sim, people in town die faster. Some people you meet don't even
live in the town, weird. About the baby, you can have one at any age (except toddler/teen)
but since your four days till death I wouldn't consider it because once you die the kid
gets taken away by social services.

Well usually once the Boy/Girl u have gone out with 4 along time & once they become Your
Boyfriend/Girlfriend if u try 2 get them 2 come over they wont come over its just a glitch
in the game cause i once my sim became his GF I tried 2 get him 2 come over he Wouldn't
come over so yeah if you ever get him 2 come over just trap him or ask him 2 move in

thank you for the responses about sims boyfriend, Kyle.
But what about friends that die...How do you know who they are mourning for? Does their
picture get removed?

Well there pictures do get removed but there r to many people 2 no who died XD but it
doesnt tell who ur mourning 4 but if u write there names down that would help cuz i did
that XD!

also when u walk around town u might see their gravestones not sure