Ok go to bowerstone and marry this girl with red hair and if she says "Im melting" when you use The manly arm pump expression thats the girl and if you keep her happy she gives you like Obsidian Greatswords and leather gloves and not just some dumb health potions like the other ones give you "I found this when i got married for the money and renown and gifts but i ended up getting greatswords if this dosent work try another girl just like the one i explained"